Family asks for extra chores โ boundaries
You are only authorized to do the tasks in the client's care plan โ politely decline out-of-scope requests, document them, and raise them with your supervisor.
- 1A respectful script: 'I'd like to help, but my authorized tasks come from the care plan. Let me ask my supervisor whether this can be added.'
- 2Common out-of-scope examples: housework for other household members, errands not in the plan, pet care not in the plan, lending/borrowing money (never allowed).
- 3Document the request: date, time, who asked, what was asked, what you said.
- 4Tell your supervisor so the care plan or expectations can be clarified with the family.
Boundaries protect the client, you, and your certification. The pattern the training teaches: decline professionally, document everything, and escalate to your supervisor rather than negotiating alone.
State training guidance (DSHS)
โ๏ธ Recurring pressure from a family is a supervisor conversation โ document each instance and call your agency.